If you are in love with a woman in this zodiac be prepared to be very happy or be very sorry. She is a very busy person with her own matters similar to a guy in this zodiac. She is able to live by herself without anyone in her life, a very strong person indeed. Not because she does not have a dream partner, but if she can not find such person, so what. Because she thinks she could do anything that a man can do. She is a leader, a real confident type. She likes to do things by herself, such as serving herself, opening the door herself. Because she thinks waiting for a helping hand is a waste of time, and she is not patient enough to wait around for that. If she asks you out, do not think she is flirting with you, but because she thinks it is a waste of time to wait for you to be the one who asked. She likes a relaxed partner who sometimes act like they are ignoring her, so they have a chance to show her their own confidence. Her appearance is puzzling. Most Aquarian women are lovely, with a haunting, wistful beauty. But they’re change­able. They can give an impression of smooth whipped cream, then suddenly switch to salty pizza as quickly as a bright, blue, zig-zag bolt of Uranian electricity. Next to Ubrans, Aquarian females are often the most beautiful women in the zodiac. At the very least, they’re interesting-looking. The Aquarian manner of dressing can stop you dead in your tracks. There are a few of them who could grace the cover of a fashion magazine, but the average Aquarian girl is anything but conventional about her cos­tumes. She can wear some outfits a gypsy would envy, and her naked individuality can produce some mighty unique combinations. She’ll usually be the first to wear a new fad, no matter how zany it is, yet she can also stick to Grand­ma styles-even great-grandma’s styles. With typical – Aquarian indifference, she’ll mix yesterday’s lace with today’s metallic jump suit, and the effect can be a little startling. She’ll wear her lace nightgown to a formal ban­quet, ostrich feathers to the supermarket, bell bottom slacks to the opera, sneakers to the theater, diamonds when she visits the zoo-and top it all off with a faded Mother Hubbard she picked up in a thrift shop. She likes to guess her partner’s reaction, but at the same time she has many wanting her. She is a daring type who could just do things differently from other people in her same society. She dares to fight for what she thinks belonged to her. Even when she acts confident, she mostly feels lonely and alone. If she breaks up with someone, she won’t show any emotion even deep down inside pain and agony. Not for long she will come back to being the cheery and merry person again, because she looks at the world positively and has “Faith” in the word “Love”. She has more guy friends than women friends, so do not be jealous if you date her. She could be slightly jealous, but she hates jealous partners. She loves “Freedom” so before and after marriage , her freedom has to be the same. She likes you to trust her, even if she does not trust you. She likes to be the one who is “Right”, so if you argue with her , let her win if it is not a big deal for you in that subject. She is a straight forward type, so if she does not love you anymore, she will just tell you straight to your face. Her love and relationship are always real, so if she says “It’s over” be prepared to leave, she is not testing you as she would have already given you many opportunities to redeem yourself. She is not a vulnerable type, so do not worry about her, she will survive by herself. If she is with you when you get sick, she will certainly take care and look after you. Do not have secrets with her, she hates it and can really piss her off badly. When she is sad , be understanding. When she is happy, be happy with her, she likes that. You will not get bored with this girl. Someone who is close to her will know that deep down beneath that confident and cold hearted person, she is just as fragile as any woman. She is a fun and talkative person and she likes to tease you. Do not let her talk alone, if you do, she will leave. Your Aquarian woman can float through her days and nights with all the grace of a proud swan, but she may behave like a clumsy bear in romantic situations. The line between friendship and love is often all but invisible to Aquarius. She'll be glad to let you take her hand and walk beside her as she looks with happy delight on the sunrise, an antique car, the milkman’s horse, a yel­low garbage pail, a stuffed owl or a red balloon caught in a church steeple. But don’t distract her with too much to-getherness. Let her wander through her wonderland alone when she chooses. She has many types of jobs because she beliefs what a man can do, I can do. If you want her to work for you, forget it. When she is in love, she will just leave her job in the day time just to come to see you, but not for long she will go back to work seriously again. Prepare to live and love with a “Working Woman” then you will be okay. If she is mad, find a shelter for the “Hurricane” is here! Her bad temper will last very shortly though. She is not a revenge type and will not think of “pay back” time. Most people might think of her as “one of the guys”, chummy and a great pal but in fact she is a 100% woman. She is easily hurt, so be nice to her. If she really loves you, then you are lucky because she is honest, truthful and will never bore you. The quickest ways to lose her are to show jealousy, possessiveness or prejudice; to be critical, chauvinism or ultra-conservative. You’ll also have to like her friends, who will come in odd, assorted sizes and shapes. She’s susceptible to sudden flashes of inspiration, and her intuition is remarkable. Her judgment may not seem sound or practical at first, because she sees months and years ahead. The Aquarian girl lives in tomorrow, and you can only visit there through her. What she says will come true, perhaps after many delays and troubles, but it will come true. I suppose, after all, that’s the most special thing about your Aquarian woman. She’s a little bit magic.

The good news is that she is one of the nicest people in the universe. The bad news is, that's because she always does exactly what she pleases. An Aquarius female is rebellious, headstrong, and contrary. She can be selfishly independent and exasperating, especially when she is running through the house screaming, "freedom!” - Hazel Dixon-Cooper

Those who love you wont need it. Those who dont wont believe it.

Things are what doesnt matter in the end.Things that are materials of this world. Things that will never follow when life ends. Things that bear no meaning without memory.Things that carry no value without the love of the giver. Things that remain lifeless without bearer. Just things. -philoism

http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=nNbTW0lhR1Y

Ah but even in all your hate, there is only love that I am capable of giving. - philoism

Only but a loss. Only but a parchment of soul. Only but a piece of heart. - philoism

I live in my own little world. But its ok, they know me here.

- Lauren Myracle

Underneath the moon
Underneath the stars
Here's a little heart
For you
Up above the world
Up above it all
Here's a hand to hold on to

But if i should break
If i should fall away
What am i to do
I need someone to take
A little of the weight
Or I'll fall through

You're just the one that I've been waiting for
I'll give you all that I have to give and more
But don't let me fall

Take a little time
Walk a little line
Got the balance right aha
Give a little love
Gimme just enough
So that i can hang on tight

We will be alright
I'll be by your side
I won't let you down
But i gotta know
No matter how things go
That you will be around

You're just the one that i've been waiting for
I'll give you all that i have to give and more
But don't let me fall
Don't let me fall

Underneath the moon
Underneath the stars
Here's a little heart
For you
Up above the world
Up above it all
Here's a hand to hold on to

You're just the one that I've been waiting for
I'll give you all that I have to give and more
But don't let me fall

You'll be the one that I'll love forever more
I'll be here holding you high above it all
But don't let me fall

- Lenka

Birds fly; they don't think twice
They simply spread their wings
The sun shines; it don't ask why
Or what the whole thing means

The same applies to you and I
We never question that
So good, it's just understood
Ain't no conjecture; it's just a matter of fact

Love is a wonderful thing
Make you smile through the pouring rain
Love is a wonderful thing
I'll say it again and again

Turn your world into one sweet dream
Take your heart and make it sing
Love, love, love is a wonderful thing
Oh yeah

The only thing a river knows
Is runnin' to the sea
And every spring when a flower grows
It happens naturally

The same magic when you're in my arms
No logic can define, oh no
Don't know why, just feels so right
I only know it happens every time

Love is a wonderful thing
Make you smile through the pouring rain
Love is a wonderful thing
I'll say it again and again

Turn your world into one sweet dream
Take your heart and make it sing
Love, love, love is a wonderful thing

Oh, when the cold wind blows
I know you're gonna be there to warm me
That's what keeps me goin'
And our sweet love gonna keep on growin', just keep on growin'

Love is a wonderful thing
Make you smile through the pouring rain
Love is a wonderful thing, oh yeah
I'll say it again and again

And turn your world into one sweet dream
Take your heart and make it sing
It's love, love; love is a wonderful
Love, love, love is a wonderful
Love, love, love is a wonderful thing

Love is a wonderful, wonderful thing
Love is a wonderful, wonderful thing
Love is a wonderful, wonderful thing

- Micheal Bolton

And when her lips met mine, I knew that I could live to be a hundred and visit every country in the world, but nothing would ever compare to that single moment when I first kissed the girl of my dreams and knew that my love would last forever.

- Dear John

I love you from the inside out.

- philoism

I carry your heart with me (I carry it in my heart)
I am never without it (anywhere I go you go,my dear; and whatever is done by only me is your doing, my darling)
I fear no fate (for you are my fate, my sweet)
I want no world (for beautiful you are my world, my true)
And it's you are whatever a moon has always meant and whatever a sun will always sing is you

Here is the deepest secret nobody knows (here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide)
And this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart

I carry your heart (I carry it in my heart)

― E.E. Cummings

Just when you think it can't get any worse, it can.
And just when you think it can't get any better, it can.

- At First Sight

You love me.
Love or not?

I love you.
Love or not?

Love.

- philoism

If one gesture can make a heart swell with love then that gesture must have been from somebody very special.

- philoism

You are my someone.
And no one compares to you.

- philoism

CCAM final interview is OVER!
The rest is up to God.

Winning doesnt matter much when you have already won experience.

- philoism

There is nothing left to do but surrender.
There is nothing left to lose because all has been lost.

- philoism

I'm not sure this is a world I belong in anymore. I'm not sure that I want to wake up. If I wake up tomorrow, pretend that you dont see me. I am dead inside. And that's just how I want to remain.

- philoism

Then you are mistaken, and you know nothing about me, and nothing about the sort of love of which I am capable. Every atom of your flesh is as dear to me as my own: in pain and sickness it would still be dear. Your mind is my treasure, and if it were broken, it would be my treasure still: if you raved, my arms should confine you, and not a strait waistcoat-your grasp, even in fury, would have a charm for me: if you flew at me as wildly as to strike me across my face, I should receive you in an embrace, at least as fond as it would be restrictive. I would not shrink from you with disgust: in your quiet moments you should have no watcher and no nurse but me; and I could hang over you with untiring tenderness, though you gave me no smile in return; and never weary of gazing into your eyes, though they had no longer a ray of recognition for me.

- Jane Eyre

Wasted days and wasted nights
I have left for you behind
For you don't belong to me
Your heart belongs to someone else

Why should I keep loving you,
When I know that you're not true
And why should I call your name
When you're the blame for making me blue

Don't you remember the day
That you went away and left me
I was so lonely
Prayed for you only, my love

Why should I keep loving you
When I know that you're not true
And why should I call your name
When you're the blame for making me blue

Don't you remember the day
That you went away and left me
I was so lonely
Prayed for you only, my love

Why should I keep loving you
When I know that you're not true
And why should I call your name
When you're the blame for making me blue

- Freddy Fender

The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected. Maybe they always have been and will be. Maybe we've lived a thousand lives before this one and in each of them we've found each other. And maybe each time, we've been forced apart for the same reasons. That means that this goodbye is both a goodbye for the past ten thousand years and a prelude to what will come.

- The Notebook

Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life.You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just go on with our own lives' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.

- The Sandman

It isn't possible to love and part. You will wish that it was. You can transmute love, ignore it, muddle it, but you can never pull it out of you. I know by experience that the poets are right: love is eternal.

- E.M. Forster

There is a depth of what remains between two souls who were once entwined in body, spirit, mind and heart. Even when the body separates, the mind, spirit and heart recognizes the other as its own. For they were made with one mould in the beginning of time, as they would return in the same form as one entity in the end of the sacred covenant of twin souls.

- philoism

I dont have anything to give, but you can have my warmth.
Its in the clothes I wore to bed.
I dont have anything to give, but you can have my hair.
Its in the brush I comb with.
I dont have anything to give, but you can have my scent.
Its in the bottle of perfume on the dresser.
I dont have anything to give, but you can have my heart.
Its in the cavity of your chest.

- philoism

I’ve been fighting to be who I am all my life. What’s the point of being who I am, if I can’t have the person who was worth all the fighting for?

- Stephanie Lennox

People always talk about how hard it can be to remember things - where they left their keys, or the name of an acquaintance - but no one ever talks about how much effort we put into forgetting. I am exhausted from the effort to forget.

- Stephen Carpenter

Knowing that she loved me, hoping that she loved me, opened some kind of door in my heart. And all the love I'd forgotten or pushed away came flooding back in.

- Sherri Lee Emmons

September Self-Love

Here are some ways to love you today!

1) When making a life choice, consider your heart. What choice would make it soar? Do that!

2) Tell yourself, in the mirror, “I love you. I love myself. I love ______ (insert your first name).” Try it for one week, every morning and night. You will be amazed at the difference in how you feel.

3) Listen to your needs and take action to fill them. Make this a top priority.

4) In your love life, let every choice be an extension of your love for yourself. If a choice doesn’t honor you, don’t make it. Put your health and happiness first.

5) Feed your spirit. Sit in a meditative posture and take a few moments to hug yourself while doing deep, gentle breathing. Feel your heart and use the mantra
“love” repeating it every few minute to focus on love for self, love for nature, love for the universe. Open a little bit more each time to love and feel the love the Divine has for you. It’s unconditional. Absorb it. Let it fill your body and expand within you and commit to giving that same unconditional love to yourself daily.

This September bring your focus to self-love and feel any old hurts melt away as you wash them with deep, encompassing self-love.

By Amy Leigh Mercree

By the time you swear you're hers, shivering and sighing.
And she vows her passion is, infinite and undying.

Make note of this:

One of you is lying.

Because no one can love like you and I darling.

― Dorothy Parker & philoism

In your light I learn how to love. In your beauty, how to make poems. You dance inside my chest where no-one sees you, but sometimes I do, and that sight becomes this art.

- Rumi

Think I'll just fall to pieces
If I don't find something else to do
This sadness never ceases
I'm still in love with you

My head, it keeps on reeling
It's got me in a crazy spin
Darling, darling, darling
Is this the end?

Still in love with you

They say time has a way of healing
Dries all the tears from your eyes
But darling it's this empty feeling
My heart can't disguise

After all that we've been through
I try my best but it's no use
I guess I'll keep on loving you
Is this the end?

Now that it's all over, woman
There's something I think you should know
Baby, baby, think it over
Just one more time before you go

Call on me baby
If there's anything I can do for you
Call on me baby
Help me see it through

I'm still in love with you

- Sade

More of Aquarius - by Carole Ann Somerville

There is more to astrology than the sun sign so it must be remembered when talking about zodiac sign characteristics that a person's rising sign and how all the planets combine in a chart also make up their personality. For that reason, this is a fun look at the Aquarius in romance.
There is no-one more unpredictable than an Aquarian. It's very difficult for anyone to understand you and in some way, your love-life will probably be 'different' to everyone else's idea of romance.

Now you like to talk about love and you certainly have an eye for an attractive member of the opposite sex. You'll like to admire but you're uncomfortable if others admire you. Why? Well, it makes you feel as if eventually you'll have to make a decision. Commitment or not? And the word commitment makes you want to run a mile.

Love Games People Play

You really aren't in a hurry to get involved in the love-games people seem to love to play. When your pals are getting excited over who's going out with whom, there are other much more interesting things you'd rather get up to. Aquarius is a sociable sign but you don't like to get too close to people.

In your childhood you will have had lots of mates but few real friends. And because of this, it might be difficult to change your way of thinking to allow for the normal ways of nature. - To allow you to get close to a member of the opposite sex.

Once that time comes, you'll need someone who has a very understanding nature. I've already said that you don't give too much of yourself away so that person will have to be patient and never too demanding. I've also mentioned your many interests and your sociable personality. Well, even when involved in a twosome, you will want to carry on with these. You will intend to continue your relationships with everyone you get on well with and if your partner shows some jealousy here, problems will result.

Aquarius in Relationships

You really aren't a person who likes to be tied to any routine. When you leave the house, you don't like to commit yourself to a special time for returning. Likewise, you won't want to have to admit to every place you're going. If you feel your partner's keeping tabs on you, your rebellious nature might start to show.

The physical side of love is fun. Aquarians enjoy it. Then again, you have to be in the mood. Sometimes you're hot, sometimes cold and sometimes your partner will wonder whether they'll ever get to understand you.. - Probably they won't! But on bearing this in mind, you really will find it difficult to handle a passionate lover who thinks more about sex than any other aspect of your relationship.

Aquarius Compatibility

Aquarius, you need someone who is essentially intellectually compatible with yourself. Next, he or she must understand your need for freedom and allow you to continue your relationships and interests outside your partnership. You have a thoroughly modern outlook to romance and if your lover shares this, there should be no problem.

You might get on well with the signs: Gemini, Libra, Aries and Sagittarius

Dating an Aquarius Woman

Ruled by Uranus, the Aquarius woman has a haunting, magnetic appeal which captivates the opposite sex. As lovely as she may look, she is also very intelligent. Intellectual rapport means more to her than sexual compatibility. In love, she will shine. This woman won't ask for demonstrative displays of affection. She won't be fooled either by false declarations of love.

There is something elusive about the Aquarius, and to keep her interested, her lover must be willing to offer her something exciting and new. She loves spontaneity. Her approach to love is more in terms of ideals and drama, than of practicality. Romance, for this woman is sacred, reposeful and recreational all at the same time! Her lover must accept her independent personality

How to Woo and Win Aquarius Woman

The Uranus-ruled Aquarius girl enjoys the unusual. She has a sociable nature and is happy to be part of a crowd while at the same time remaining a degree detached. Few people get really close to her.

Romance - like all areas of her life - can be unpredictable and her wonderful sense of drama will add a tinge of excitement to her courtship. She's a unique lady who will not tolerate a man who wants to keep her tied to the home and family. Not particularly in a rush to make a firm commitment, her man must have something exciting and individual to offer before she even thinks about marriage.

Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field.
I'll meet you there.
When the soul lies down in that grass the world is too full to talk about.

- Rumi

I don’t want the heavens or the shooting stars. I don’t want gemstones or gold. I have those things already. I want a steady hand. A kind soul. I want to fall asleep, and wake, knowing my heart is safe. I want to love, and be loved.

― Shana Abé

I feel that life is divided into the horrible and the miserable. That's the two categories. The horrible are like, I don't know, terminal cases, you know, and blind people, crippled. I don't know how they get through life. It's amazing to me. And the miserable is everyone else. So you should be thankful that you're miserable, because that's very lucky, to be miserable.

― Woody Allen

Sometimes you climb out of bed in the morning and you think, I'm not going to make it, but you laugh inside — remembering all the times you've felt that way.

― Charles Bukowski

One of the tasks of true friendship is to listen compassionately and creatively to the hidden silences. Often secrets are not revealed in words, they lie concealed in the silence between the words or in the depth of what is unsayable between two people.

- John O'Donohue

No one else has access to the world you carry around within yourself; you are its custodian and entrance. No one else can see the world the way you see it. No one else can feel your life the way you feel it. Thus it is impossible to ever compare two people because each stands on such different ground. When you compare yourself to others, you are inviting envy into your consciousness; it can be a dangerous and destructive guest.

- John O'Donohue

All that I am, all that I have
I lay them down before you, oh Lord
All my regrets, all my acclaims
The joy and the pain, I'm making them yours

Lord, I offer my life to you
Everything I've been through
Use it for your glory
Lord I offer my days to you
Lifting my praise to you
As a pleasing sacrifice
Lord I offer you my life

Things in the past, things yet unseen
Wishes and dreams that are yet to come true
All of my heart, all of my praise
My heart and my hands are lifted to you

Lord, I offer my life to you
Everything I've been through
Use it for your glory
Lord I offer my days to you
Lifting my praise to you
As a pleasing sacrifice
Lord I offer you my life

What can we give
That you have not given?
And what do we have
That is not already yours?
All we possess
Are these lives we're living
That's what we give to you, Lord

Lord, I offer my life to you
Everything I've been through
Use it for your glory
Lord I offer my days to you
Lifting my praise to you
As a pleasing sacrifice
Lord I offer you my life
Lord I offer you my life

- Hillsong

Do not feel sorry or guilt for all that has, is and may come to pass. Know that I will love you always. When this black hair is white, I will still love you. When the smooth softness of youth is replaced by the delicate softness of age, I will still want to touch your skin. When your face is full of the lines of every smile you have ever smiled, of every surprise, some which I have seen flash through your eyes, when every tear you have ever cried has left its mark upon your face, I will treasure you all the more, even if I wasn't there to wipe it all away. When your heart is burdened with pain, I will place my palm over your chest and give you the gift of light to let you know that I love you. When you come to me, I will share the remaining of your life with you, and I will love you until the last breath leaves your body or mine. This is my gift to you. My unconditional love.

- philoism

You are my angel
Come from way above
To bring me love

Her eyes
She's on the dark side
Neutralize
Every woman in sight

Love you, love you, love you

You are my angel
Come from way above

Love you, love you, love you

- Massive Attack

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ml7TmC__eDc

Happy Anniversary.

- philoism